The importance of having a good Wingman

You knew that before: success in meeting girls depend on the guys you know. Loners have never been the most successful with girls. There are number of reasons to that. First of all, you don’t really have fun when you go out by yourself. Suppose that you meet girls in clubs and bars, being alone will not put you in the good mood and then you won’t have that much chance to meet anyone. Beside of that, girls definitely prefer guys who are good socially integrated and who have good friends. The problem that lots of us face is that when you move to a location that you don’t know, may it be for a couple of weeks and a couple of years, you go through a period when you don’t know much people, and it can take mouths before you get acquainted with the right people and when you can even get the chance to have a dating life. There is also lots of people working on the weekend who can’t go out on Friday and Saturday night, and then don’t get the chance to have a fully fulfilling social life. I don’t think this has to be like that. Even in small cities, there are hundreds of people around you in the exact same situation, just willing to meet people to go out, or just for the sake of socializing. This is the purpose of my website: meeting people. Meeting guys to meet girls. A couple of years ago, I get the habit of going on dating sites and I got disappointed by them, not because they were not good website,  but just the concept of meeting people of the opposite sex online wasn’t right to me, it felt unnatural. I spent hours online, trying to get acquainted, then struggling to have some kind of conversation, and after hours spent online, I could finally have a date with a girls which was not always was I expected, and with who I didn’t always get along that good. But the worse in dating site is that it kills all what seduction is about. Seduction is about overcoming social fears and creating situation where someone of the opposite sex can be attracted to you. We don’t see any of that in dating site, instead, we see a flat approach, leading to flat a flavorless social interaction. On the opposite, getting girls in real life is challenging, it’s arousing and it allows you to hone your social skills and make you life much better and tasteful. So what you have to do now is just meeting people around you with this same purpose to go out and give you life this twist that you are waiting for, for such a long time.

For this reason you should check this website http://www.findyourwingman.com

 

See you there, JB

 

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What to say to her, break the glass

We all went throught that, she is standing next to you at a bar, she is cute you would like to speak to her but… you have nothing to say. It just that at this moment, you feel blank, then you feel guilty for feeling this way, then you begin feeling this pressure, this adrenaline, then you just look at her going away, without knowing if she noticed you, or if she noticed you, hoping that you didn’t look at her in a too awkward manner and that she thinks that you are weird. The party is over, actualy it havn’t even started, you didn’t even gave yourself the chance to get aquainted with her. It is possible that at this moment, you feel a bit disapointed by yourself, so you just get your drink and go sitting back with your friends and they say “did you see this ckich at this bar, she was really hot” and you say “I know.

We all know that: it’s not always easy being a guy who likes girls, when you are nice, you are too nice, when you are not so nice, you are jerk, when you are aloof, you are rude, when you pay too mutch attention, you are creepy. The good news is that it doesn’t have to be like that. You can reach this stage, where as a miracle, you know what do do, what to say, what to be, and she sees it, and this is when attraction begins its charms. This is what we call confidence. Why is confidence attractive for a girl? I still don’t know exactly, but I can say that this is the way it is. Cool, then how do we get confident then? This is mutch easier thatn you think! I saw in my life the most desperate seduction cases becoming great pichupartist just because they got this holy greal.

So let’s come back to our bar and let’s rewing the scene, so imagine you are stading side by side with this gorgeous girl, you are both waiting to order something, but this time, something crutial has changed, you are confident. A confident guy don’t over think what he does because he knows that thinking and doing are two separate activities that cannot be combined. A confiendent person is just in the moment. At this moment, they are playing this new song that you heard on the radio this morning. By turning your head, you this this girl. A confident person skeaks what he has is this mind, so you just say “what’s a great song, I really like this David Guetta” (just say that when it’s really a song from David Guetta, otherwise she gonna think you are weird) she says, “me too” then you begin speaking about music for a while, then she says she has to get back with het friends. So you come back with yours. You didn’t take her number because you didn’t speak with her long enough, but it doens’t matter, you still enjoyed speaker to her, and you have a positive energy for the rest of the night.

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